jupitersterrain four

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I actually think there is something magnificent about bpd
im diagnosed with schizophrenia
but I share so many characterisitcs with bpd
they are such passionate creative people, so brave and fearless

I suppose the self harm is a bitch
but I somehow have managed to overcome that

harassed by a drunk man 

well yes and alot of men do understand as well
if they are not drunk in an unpleasant way

but yes I do end up thinking what have I done to invite this
certainly nothing flirtatious in this case
I started wondering if his hair looks like mine
because it is scruffy

sometimes hair can attract certain types of people

if a woman expresses a sexual thought 

so there are circles where this is not a problem
like in new age progressive green gatherings
where roleplay groups are doing conflict management and stuff
there are workshops where sexuality is explored

but in mainstream society
if a woman expresses something sexual or flirtatious
its is regarded as a promise to any male present
or even also to a gay woman present sometimes

when she may not actually have invested so much of herself in that thought
she may be just observing her own patterns

so is it really true that men cannot control themselves sexually ?

yes I think people can be taught to control themselves

there used to be a thing
where some women expected to be chased
as part of a courting game

but its best not to do that now
considering as you said laws that are in place

or if people want to play those games
they need to put in place a safe word
I dont see the need to make one up
just say ' safe word '

if someone is not reading you right