word jam : messing about

would you rather 
sleep with a fish or a hyena 

messing around with the boys 
causing trouble 
keep it in your pants   

why do i always fancy the wrong person ? 

those girls at the races had a choice 
it was a drunken dare 

pissing in the urinals 

and things are such now 
that i seem to have a few male partners 
all of whom know that we are not faithful to each other 
but each one seems to be the right one when I'm talking to him 
the real one the one who is really my partner 

so like several open relationships going on 

and I'm stumbling around in the dark 


I actually think there is something magnificent about bpd 
they are such passionate creative people, so brave and fearless 

I suppose the self harm is a bitch 

harassed by a drunk man 

well yes and alot of men do understand as well 
if they are not drunk in an unpleasant way 

but yes I do end up thinking what have I done to invite this 
certainly nothing flirtatious in this case 
I started wondering if his hair looks like mine 
because it is scruffy 

sometimes hair can attract certain types of people

or if a woman expresses a sexual thought 

so there are circles where this is not a problem 
like in new age progressive green gatherings 
where roleplay groups are doing conflict management and stuff 
there are workshops where sexuality is explored 

but in mainstream society 
if a woman expresses something sexual or flirtatious 
its is regarded as a promise to any male present 
or even also to a gay woman present sometimes 

when she may not actually have invested so much of herself in that thought
she may be just experiencing herself 

there used to be a thing 
where some women expected to be chased 
as part of a courting game 

but its best not to do that now 

or if people want to play those games 
they need to put in place a safe word 
no need to make one up 
just say ' safe word '