jupitersterrain four

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I think usually women are not trying to get raped .
some couples have masochistic games going on
which goes all the way back to little Bo peep really

in recent years such people speak of a ' safe word '
which has not been enough explored I think

even in Victorian times it was considered
that a woman saying no was to be pursued for her hand in marriage
by her ardent suitor and he would wear her down

and I know many a Christian wife who was ' wooed ' in this way

my suggestion is that if people have not decided on a safe word
they could just say safe word

because people sometimes are uncertain how they feel about it
they are exploring they haven't decided
but if someone says ' safe word ' it means
look I really don't want this I have seriously finished with you



also if they block you on social media put your

email into spam and say they want nothing to do with you

you can satisfy yourself they have moved on